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Remarks by John Triplett
Ruel Bliss Triplett was born March 24th, 1907, in Fairview Utah, the seventh of eight children born to William Henry Harrison Triplett and Tranquilla Ann Stevens. He was preceded in death by his parents, and by his four brothers and three sisters, and by five sons. Ruel was the last surviving member of his birth family.

Ruel passed away June 12th. He was 93 years old, perhaps I should say 93 years young. He always said he would live to a hundred, because he had so much yet to do. His mind was willing, but his body failed.

Ruel is survived by his wife, Veda, by two sons and five daughters, by 41 grandchildren, and by 46 great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by an adopted son, Vance, by triplett sons, Ransom, Reegan, and Raymond, who died in infancy in 1942, and by a son, Basil, who died in 1982.

Welcome, family and friends, and thank you for being here. I don't feel that we are here in mourning. If we grieve, I think it is for ourselves, because we no longer have Dad as part of our lives. Rather, I suggest we are here in celebration, in celebration of a life lived long and well and full, and in respect, in respect for this man who was such an integral part of our lives. I am honored to have the opportunity to say a few words about my Father.

Before I begin, I want to take this opportunity to publicly thank our sister, Iris, on behalf of the family. In the last few weeks when Dad became too weak to care for himself, Iris moved in and provided around-the-clock care for him. He called her his angel, and indeed she was.


"And a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall take a wife, and shall raise up a family, and shall teach them well, and shall work mightily to provide for his charges, and shall give to the land and to the people who give to him." Now that is scripture from John Triplett, but it is the essence of what is in the holy scriptures, and it is the essence of Dad's life.

"A life lived long and well and full"--I can't think of words that could better describe Dad's life. In addition to providing for his family, he had many personal, intellectual, community, and social interests and pursuits. He was well known and respected in this wide area of southwest Wyoming and northeastern Utah. His handiwork is evident in many sites in the area, including the Flaming Gorge Dam, the Sweetwater County courthouse, the McKinnon ward building, the Outlaw Inn in Rock Springs, and at many other sites.

Dad was active in many organizations. He served as scoutmaster, in the bishopric of the McKinnon Ward, on the McKinnon School Board, as secretary and president of the Green River Rock and Mineral Club, and was a member of the Green River Historical Society. For a number of years he published the Castle Rock Chatter, and in 1981 his newsletter won the Rocky Mountain Federation of Mineralogical Societies' prize for newletter publications. He was solely responsible for the state historical marker at Burntfork that points to the site of the very first Mountain Man Rendezvous.

Dad was a very educated man, which is particularly noteworthy considering that he did not finish high school. But he never stopped studying and learning. He amassed an extensive library of books and articles and papers. He was always studying. I remember when he undertook a study of the dictionary. He would study several pages each evening. He was especially interested in the history of southwestern Wyoming, and intended to write a book on this history. But this is one of his projects that didn't get done.


Dad had a lifelong interest in rocks and minerals and geology. He studied these subjects extensively and became an expert in them. One of his favorite activities was field trips to collect rock and mineral specimens. He traded rock samples extensively with other rock hounds in the area and around the country, and built an extensive collection of samples from all over the world. I am presently looking for a home for some of this collection. Dad was very knowledgeable of the geology of the west, and especially of the southwestern Wyoming area. He said he used to be frightened of heights, but when he began climbing mountains and cliffs in search of rock specimens, he got over this fear.

Music was another of Dad's interests and loves. He played the piano, the violin, the guitar, the banjo, and the harmonica. Dad and some of his music friends formed a band and played for McKinnon dances. He passed on his musical talents to several of his daughters.

I would like to recap a few of the events of Dad's life. When Dad was fifteen his father homesteaded a place at McKinnon, just on the Utah side of the state line. Dad and his older brother Wendell preceded the family to McKinnon. They rode the train to Carter, near Ft. Bridger, caught a ride with the mailman to Burntfork, then walked the final 6 or 7 miles to the homestead. They climbed the hill in front of the place where Dad would eventually homestead himself, to look for his sister Hortense's house. He often told me "Little did I know I would one day own that hill." This big venture, by two young brothers, made a lasting impression on that young boy. He told the story often.

Dad learned carpentry skills from his father as they built their homestead. In later years Dad would proudly show me structures he helped build. These carpentry skills became one of Dad's occupations.


When he was 17 and feeling his independence, Dad and a friend left to see the world. They set off for New York, where they heard there was work. They traveled hitching rides on freight trains. This was risky business, because the "Bulls" were always chasing them off the railroad. Once a pistol was pointed right at his face and he beat a hasty retreat. Well, there wasn't any more work in New York than at home, so disillusioned headed back home. He was gone for about two years, and in the course of his travels he visited nearly every state in the country, which he would later brag about.

One day, as Dad tells it, he saw a beautiful young lady standing on a bridge reading a book; it was love at first sight. She says she first saw him getting out of a little car in front of Benedicts in Mountain View where she worked, and wondered how such a tall lanky man could get into such a small car. At any rate they were married in 1937 in Manila.

Eventually Dad became a full-time brakeman on the Union Pacific Railroad and settled in Rawlins. This is where my earliest memories begin. The railroad job was a good job, especially considering that it was just after the Great

Depression and during World War II. But in 1946 Dad gave it up and moved to McKinnon to homestead. People said he was crazy, and financially it was crazy. But Dad wasn't thinking about the finances: he loved the outdoors, he loved working the land, he loved the timber and logging and building, he loved his rocks and minerals, but I think most of all he just wanted to be his own boss. He wanted to be the author of his own destiny.

The outcome of this move and midlife career change was certainly the hardest years of Dad's and Mom's lives. Mostly Dad timbered and sawmilled, but he and Mother also raised pigs and chickens and eggs and cows and always had work horses. But always Dad went back to the sawmill. I marvel at how hard he worked. He sawed the trees down by hand with a one-man saw, chopped the limbs off, sawed the trees into log lengths, skidded them off the mountain side with horses, loaded them onto the truck, and hauled them home. He could get one truckload of logs per day. He did this for two weeks at a time, then spent two weeks on the sawmill, sawing the logs into lumber. He also had to keep up the farm, and there was extra work in the summer, such as haying and building fences.


When I became old enough I began helping on weekends and summers. I chopped the limbs off the trees and we used a two-man saw to cut the trees into log lengths. Eventually we got a power saw and that was a Godsend. At about 15 I began driving a logging truck and we could get two loads of logs each day.

From Dad I learned, among other things, lumberjacking, sawmilling, trucking, ranching and farming, how to handle horses, and carpentry. Years later I showed Dad some carpentry I was doing on my own house. He seemed to be impressed and asked, "John, where did you learn to do this?" I truthfully answered, "From you, Dad." Even though he didn't say anything, I know he was pleased.

It was in those years that I came to know Dad best. I commented recently to him on how hard he had worked. He said that often he didn't have the strength to do the tasks at hand and had to contrive work-arounds. But what I remember is how hard he worked and how hard I worked alongside him. I learned early to work like a man, and to not be afraid of hard work, and that lesson has served me well.

I also learned self-esteem and self-confidence from Dad and Mother. Being assigned to deliver lumber and collect what was for us a large sum of money, driving a logging truck down steep mountain roads, even before I had a drivers license, handling horses in the hayfields and in the timber, off-bearing on the sawmill, doing finish work in a new room in our house--all did wonders for my ego. Dad wasn't much for praising us directly, but once he told Mother he would rather have me work for him than any hired hand, and she told me.


And I learned other things from Dad. He taught mostly by example. I learned loyalty and honesty and integrity. I never saw Dad do anything that was improper in any way. And he taught respect. Once he directed me to weed the garden. When I thought he wasn't looking I turned around and stuck my tongue out at him. But he was looking! He caught me in short order and I got a well-deserved spanking.

These years of hard work and difficulty were the formative years for us kids. We still call ourselves "us kids". Looking back, we realize they were a priceless heritage; we wouldn't trade them for anything. It's too bad all children can't have experiences like we did. Recently us kids put together our memories of growing up with Dad and Mom and presented it to them for their 50th anniversary. We titled it "Growing Up On Triplett Lane". The foreword says

    It seems like so long ago...
    Yet it seems like just yesterday...
    Anyway, it happened,
    So read, and enjoy

It brought back a flood of memories and tears and laughs.

But it wasn't all work. Dad loved to take us on outings and picnics. Some favorite places were Hide Out, now covered by Flaming Gorge Reservoir, Palisade Park in Sheep Creek Canyon, and into the mountains and timber. These outings were often accompanied by some measure of rock collecting. We have a treasured picture of Dad climbing down from Widdop's Peak in his undershorts. He had collected so many geodes and had no way to carry them, so he took off his overalls, tied the legs together, and filled them with rocks!


When the Flaming Gorge Dam project began, Dad changed occupations again. He became a full-time carpenter. After the dam was completed, he worked on various other projects, including the Sweetwater County courthouse and the Outlaw Inn. Then he changed occupations again. He chanced into a business opportunity and became a businessman. For some years he ran the Maverick gas station in Green River. He and Mother also operated a trailer court and a U-Haul Rental business. Dad actively managed his businesses until his mid-eighties.

Now, I've been talking pretty much about Dad. But so much of what I've said about Dad also pertains to Mother. That beautiful lady Dad saw standing on the bridge is now this beautiful older lady sitting up here on the front row.

Dad was not one to openly show his affections much, I don't think he really knew how. But in later years he began to show more and more how much his family meant to him. He and I used to greet with a handshake. But then I came to realize how distant a handshake is, so one day I just walked past his hand and hugged him. We always hugged after that. In the last few years Dad's family members became everything to him.

Dad loved to organize our family reunions and outings. He always made an agenda. He rigged up a public address system so we could all share our experiences. He recorded these events and distributed tapes to everyone. He took pictures then made albums and distributed them to us. Of course these are prize possessions now.


Dad left a legacy. His life taught us to be interested, to savor the moment, to reap all that life has to offer. Someone has said, "Happiness is the journey, not the destination." Or in other words, "Take time to smell the flowers." Dad's life was a journey, full, long, and interesting. Dad, I salute you. You lived long, and well, and full. I am proud to be your son. And speaking for all your progeny, we are proud to be your sons and daughters. And speaking for all your relatives and friends and acquaintances, we are pleased and proud to have known you and to have had our lives enriched by you. You lived long, and well, and full. Now, peace to you, Dad. Rest well.

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